Relax with 3 Easy Breathing Exercises

Emma Swann

Why do so many meditation traditions have the breath as a core practice? Because it works. As long as we’re alive, we have a breath. It’s always here, it’s always happening in the present moment and when we remember to notice it, it’s easy to find. 

Here are my 3 favourite breathing practices for relaxation in daily life. 

A painting of a person sitting on the earth, breathing in and out under the moon
A Longer Exhale

1. A Longer Exhale 

This is such an easy one to slip into a busy day. Driving the car, waiting in a queue, trying to go to sleep -  you name it, you can do this exercise. Here’s what to do:

  • Breathe in and count to 4. Breathe out and count to 6. 
  • Do this at least 5 times, longer if you can, and really pay attention to your breathing. Notice your chest rise as you breath in, and fall as you breath out. 

Why does this make us feel more relaxed? When we prolong our exhale, our blood flow slows down. This activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which aids relaxation. 

A woman blocks her right nostril with her index finger, and breathes in through her left nostril.
A Woman doing the Tibetan 9 Round Breathing Exercise

2. Tibetan 9 Round Breathing Exercise

This is surprisingly effective. It’s quite active so is perfect for a busy mind when more subtle meditative exercises feel too hard. It’s also a great one for a mini-break at work because it’s only 9 breaths. No matter how busy we are, we can stop and be present for 9 breaths. 

First 3 breaths - breathe in the right nostril, breath out of the left nostril
  • With your index finger, block your left nostril while you breathe into your right nostril. Breathe in slowly and steadily, pause for a moment, then block the right nostril and breathe out through the left nostril.
  • Do this 3 times. Keep the in and out breaths slow and steady and be aware of the sensations in the nostrils as you breath.  
Middle 3 breaths - breathe in the left nostril, breath out of the right nostril
  • Now do the reverse - block your right nostril and breathe in through the left nostril.
  • Pause, then block your left nostril and breathe out through the right nostril.
  • Do this 3 times, slowly and steadily, staying with the breath.
Last 3 breaths - Breathe through both nostrils
  • Place your hands in your lap and breathe in through both nostrils, gently and evenly.
  • Notice the different sensation of breathing through both nostrils.
  • Pause, and then exhale through both nostrils, keeping your attention on the felt sensation of breathing.
(Thanks to Venerable Sangye Khadro from FPMT for sharing this technique.)
A man stands in a forest looking at a tree and breathing with that tree
A Man Breathing with a Tree

3. Breathe with a tree

We often do this when guiding Forest Therapy walks. It’s ideally done outside standing in front of a tree, but it can be done inside with a pot plant. Here’s what to do:

  • Find a tree and stand in front of it. You may like to put your hands on its trunk, or if it’s a pot plant, place your hands on its leaves.
  • Really notice the tree. Take it in with all your senses - what can see, smell, touch and hear? 
  • Close or half close your eyes, and notice your breathing. Then reflect on what is happening between you and your tree as you both breathe. On your in-breath, know that you’re breathing in oxygen that your tree released through photosynthesis. The process of converting sunlight into glucose to keep itself alive.
  • On your out-breath, know that you are breathing out carbon dioxide, a key ingredient that your tree needs when photosynthesising sunlight. 
  • Stay with this reflection, as you breathe in and out. Breathe with your tree. I like to shorten it to ‘breathing in - you give me oxygen. Breathing out - I give you carbon dioxide.’
  • Really feel this. Not as an intellectual exercise, but as a lived experience - with each in-breath, your tree is producing oxygen, just as you are breathing it in. You need oxygen to live. With each out-breath, your tree is absorbing carbon dioxide, just as you are breathing it out. It needs carbon dioxide to live.

This is so simple, but quite profound. Even just 5 minutes of breathing with a tree will make you more relaxed and grateful. Being aware of these larger processes at play is humbling. No trees, no oxygen for our breath, no life. It can give a sense of perspective and of being part of something bigger - while we depend on trees for our breath, we also offer them something of value when we breathe out. It’s an interdependent relationship. 

Happy breathing! May it relax and nourish you. Remember - your breath is always here to tap into when you need it.

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